For fab ladies!

Wow! Uhhh... So I woke up this morning feeling the spirit of love around me! Valentine is around the corner and as time ticks, people get affected. Some are excited and others feel really anxious… but people like me are indifferent!

So I’m going to be dropping a few relationship hints today for my ladies! The aim is to help them in this period and even after now.

So let’s get started!

1.      Stop trying to match everything he does for you by reciprocating. He may have all the money in the world and you just aren’t so well to do. So please and please, make sure he understands your financial situation.

2.      When resolving conflicts, take turns to speak. One person should never dominate the conversation. He should respect your decisions too.

3.      Speak up! If there’s anything you’ve noticed or you don’t like, please go ahead and voice it out. However, approach every situation with wisdom…

That’s the much I’ll be writing so the remaining aspect of this would be continued soon…. Ciao!

Dating tips...

So this time around, I decided to write on an issue that people always speculate about. At least, with the knowledge I’ve accumulated overtime based on experience and the books I’ve read (really good books by great authors), I decided to just give out some important dating tips for relationships especially new relationships… So?

1.      Please and please! If you are just getting to know this girl or guy, do not keep late nights. The both of you are just starting out and if that’s how the foundation kicks off, I doubt if that relationship would last long.

2.      The both of you should try to study yourselves. Get to know each other’s weaknesses and strengths, likes and dislikes… This is very crucial for a relationship!

3.      Ladies! Please DO NOT go ahead to discuss every single detail of your relationship with your girlfriends. Jealousy is real… and guys, please you DO NOT have to tell your guys everything too. More so, avoid seeking their advice.

4.      Even in a relationship, keep in mind that you have your life to live. Everything doesn’t have to be based on your relationship. You both aren’t married yet! Have that in mind…

5.      Jealousy destroys relationships. In as much as it’s bound to happen, it get to a point that insecurity takes over and that crashes relationships.

6.      Don’t be quick to action! Think before you talk and act in a relationship.

7.      NEVER neglect warning signals.

8.      Ok… the last tip I’m going to give today is: ensure you DEFINE the relationship.

Laws of Attraction

A whole lot of people have been wondering how they could enjoy life… hmmmm! If I was going to educate you on that, it’s going to take about a year or maybe more. I’m actually enjoying my life and I want you to join me… so I just compiled 5 important tips that could change your circumstances and I call them THE 5 POWERFUL LAWS OF ATTRACTION. Here we go!

1.      Love yourself! Trust me! No one’s going to appreciate you if you don’t appreciate yourself. You cannot give what you do not have. So you can’t love someone if you don’t love yourself… celebrate yourself!

2.      Develop strong self-confidence. You really don’t want to be looked at as someone with low self-esteem. You want to be an envy to others so you have to believe in yourself and your dreams.

3.      Develop a charming dress sense. I usually say it’s not all about what you are wearing but how you are wearing it. You could see a lady putting on an Oscar de la Renta gown and yet, looking really shabby. On the other hand, another lady could be putting on just a casual dress but looking so elegant. Work on your looks, body language and posture. The way you dress is the way you’ll be addressed!

4.      Develop a calm, peaceful, easy going and joyful personality. This attracts people to you! When you radiate positive energy, people would want to be around you!

5.      In everything you do, make sure God is always the centre of your choices, actions lifestyle!

Trust me, if you make use f these tips, you would be amazed how a whole lot of people would want to be around you and you’ll feel happiness like you’ve never done before. #wink!

What dreams can do!

1 thing I have come to realize in life is that no one is good for nothing! No one is good for everything! But every single being on this earth is good for something! There is power in the dreams people have…. The first step to success is having a dream!

This is the story of Rev. Dr.Charles Olowojoba (reality-no lies):

Charles was a young boy who was born into a Muslim family and had a big dream! He wanted to be a medical doctor and own his own clinic someday. When he completed his high school education, his dad told him “listen up young man, this is where it ends for you. No more education. I have a project to complete and this is where we draw the curtains”. Charles felt disappointed but was so determined to make his dream a reality…

Charles used his savings to travel to stay with one of his relatives ( his uncle to be precise), ate barely a meal each day, trekked almost 3miles every day to go and study at the nearest library and denied himself rest at some point…

He wrote 4 entrance examinations and got accepted into three. Out of 22,000 candidates that sat for the exams of the University of his Choice, only 105 were admitted, himself inclusive! Charles pleaded with his dad to pay his fees and reluctantly, his dad honored his request.

Charles accepted Jesus Christ in his first year and when he told his family about it, his dad told him he was done! He told him to make a choice between his faith and school and he chose Jesus. A week to his resumption, he’s name was mysteriously published in various newspapers which said that he had been shortlisted for a government scholarship.
Charles went through medical school successfully and later had his dream become a reality when he established “Maycare Hospital and Clinics” in Kano, Nigeria which was recognized nationwide. He held various positions in the Nigerian Medical Association (NMA). However, he answered the call of God and went into full time ministry in the city of Abuja. He is presently the President and founder of Dayspring Christian Ministries. He is happily married with a son.

What people thought was impossible came to pass and it all started as a dream! With God on one’s side and self-determination, every dream (no matter how big) can become a reality! We need not despise our days of little beginning. DREAM BIG!

You can get more information on Rev. Dr. Charles Olowojoba and his ministry via www.dayspringcmi.org